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We stood there at the end of the night with our arms wrapped around each other. That night he texted, apologizing for stumbling over his words and that he Looking for romance and or friendship me. Earlier that same night he told me that he had just started dating a lovely woman that seemed like his complete match.Sexy Ladies Especially Cougars
In all my excitement I also realized that something was going to shift. Perhaps I stepped back to mitigate the inevitable feeling of loss from our friendship changing.
We met a few years prior to that night through a mutual friend at a party and quickly clicked. He had just moved to San Francisco for a new job and was looking for friends.
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He was my complete opposite: Oh, and a vegetarian. Luckily, that has never been my goal.
We were so different yet something aligned with our souls. We did long brunches and talked about the meaning of life.
He had a group of best friends from growing up and the ebbs and flows of staying friends through adulthood deeply affected him.
We both loved the book The Perks of Being A Wallflower and cried during the movie when it came out in theaters. When he and his now ex-girlfriend had a blow-out he called to just have someone sit on the phone with him in silence.
By definition, we were friends. But, to me, it was also love.
It was a certain type of romance. It was all those things at the same time. I look back on our relationship and reflect on what was special and meant so much to me. It was love in the purest form. Truly seeing each other and being present.
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The whole dating thing has never felt natural to me. Yet love is a huge desire in me and I was able to extend that love to him.
And I am so grateful for that. I also get sad.
But I wonder if that was actually the case. Could there have been space for me to continue to be in his life if we had a conversation even though he had a conventional romantic partner?
I also get frustrated; Ladies seeking real sex Altus that rromance interactions typically have a non-platonic nature, otherwise one party loses interest in getting to know the other. I get frustrated that as I get older, my peers care Lopking about finding conventional romantic partners. I get frustrated that relationships like these do not get the same validation in society. There is Looking for romance and or friendship the same responsibility or accountability about communication and maintaining them.
There are no love songs written by these kind of relationships.
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Our relationship is not unlike other male friendships in my life that petered off after they found romantic partnerships. I run into him from time to time because we live in the same neighborhood.
I hope that he is experiencing the love he desires and deserves. And maybe someday I will Looking for romance and or friendship that kind of love again. Sign in Get started.
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